![]() That you acted like a d-bag (don't know you well enough to know if you are one but that action is a d-bag move) and couldn't handle talking with her about whatever problems their were in the relationship.Īnd yes that is all coming off a lot harsher then I mean it but well its only been two weeks since D-day for me. If you actualy do care about her being devastated or not at least this will give her self esteem a fighting chance knowing it wasn't her it was you. Though you should tellher about the affair to and be honest about it. At the very least tell her you want a divorce as it is defnitley seems you are cake eating. And she has some balls well she did I recently removed them from her purse and reattached them inbetween my legs.Īs for hating you no I don't hate you I think what youdid was low and spineless and for the act of the affair you should be held responsible but you need to tell your wife. Chances are she already knows anyways and is waiting for to come clean. Having a wife that won'tnown up to it even after caught. I don't think this would solve our problems but at least the stress of being away would be removed (plus I'm having a hard time of it at my job.)Ĭlick to expand.:iagree::iagree::iagree: I've got a job lead that we could stay together and not be apart but she's against it as we'd have to move a long way away. There are a lot of other things that I could bore you with but I'm sure if she posted she'd have a laundry list of things that bother her too so I'm not going to (this is a little long already). I know this happened a long time ago and I should get over it but I can't. Although now she is much more receptive to sex since she quit working it almost makes it seem worse. I think that really hurt me and,like I said, I still resent that to this day. She would constantly reject me as far as sex goes and would only do it when she initiated it. One other thing that I really resent happened early in the marriage but still bothers me. It's not about the money but If I would have know my wife would quite working completely at the age of 35 I doubt I would've married her (although I can't say for sure). I cold see if we had kids to take care of but we don't so it's just the two of us and honestly, it makes me very angry. (I work about 1/2 the year away from home and the other half I'm off). About 6 months ago I asked if she'd planned on going back to work and she cried for quite a long time about that and what it boiled down to was that it was too hard to work while I was going back and forth from my job. At first I was fine with it as I know she had a really hard time of it at work but I thought after a break she'd find a different job. ![]() I am unhappy in the marriage for a few reasons but one of the biggest is that she stopped working about 2 years ago and I really resent that I work and she doesn't. She's a very nice person and it kills me to think about her with a broken heart. Plus, it would feel like throwing away all those years of memories (almost 12 years of marriage). She has said a while back that she doesn't know what she would ever do without me. I would feel so sorry for her and worry that she'd end up lonely. I do love my wife but it's almost more of a father's love for a child. Actually I would welcome it as I'm really not happy, however, I know it would devastate her and I would feel so bad thinking about her alone. ![]() I know 100% that if I told her about this it would lead to divorce. I've cheated on my wife and know it's wrong and if she found out I'd deserve whatever bad thing happened to me. I'm going to be completely honest and say right off the bat that I'm not a good person.
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